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KJV and NKJV Scripture

–  Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks. – Ephesians 5:4

– Foolish talking and jesting aren’t the ways in which Christian cheerfulness should ever express itself, but rather giving of thanks.  A relationship with Jesus is the source of all joy and gladness in life.  Expressed in gratitude and praise, not jokes – from Charles Hodge

The word jesting means to joke around, fool around, tease, and make wise cracks.  It can involve tossing around a little sarcasm now and then.  Intents to jest are behind the generation of comedy routines and sketches.  However, even if done in social situations, usually among family and friends well-acquainted with each other, it is often labeled as “just having fun.”

However, there isn’t anything funny about faith, and there isn’t anything comical about Christianity – or being a believer.  All foolish talking leads to foolish walking, and not redeeming the time wisely as God commands us to (Ephesians 5:15-16).  Christ did not go around cracking jokes, poking fun at people, or engaging in good-natured ribbing with any person.

We never read of Jesus saying things like “I didn’t mean to hurt you with that joke.  I was just kidding.” Christ only spoke words given by God (John 12:49), and God does not joke around.  Eternity is not a laughing matter.  It is nothing to make light of, – as the marriage dinner parable points out (Matthew 22:1-5).  There isn’t any levity in being left behind.

God warns us throughout His Word about the effect our words have on others.  Life and death are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21).  However, mouths speak out of the heart’s abundance (Luke 6:45).  Filling up on the world brings forth foolish talking, wise cracking, sarcasm, and jesting.  Filling up on the Word brings forth joy in Jesus; not jokes.

No matter how harmless any attempts at humor may seem, they can stab at, then pierce somebody’s heart (Proverbs 12:18).  Reopening emotional wounds from years ago, scars the recipient of the jesting thought were finally healed.  New damage and pain perhaps never intended is created, even if the injured soul laughs it off like it did not hurt – when it really did.

As innocent as jesting might appear, it is not godly. Seemingly gentle teasing can easily cross the line into some taunting, an emotional form of bullying.  Making wise cracks is not only showing a lack of wisdom, but failing to ask God for it (James 1:5), so jesting stops. Sarcasm, from the Greek “sarkazein” (to strip off the flesh) – is a close cousin of scoffing and mockery.

Scoffing God will mark man’s last days as scores walk after their own lusts (2 Peter 3:3).  And, God will not be mocked (Galatians 6:7).  Both Abraham and Sarah scoffed at and mocked God’s promise to deliver them a child in their advanced ages (Genesis 17:17, 18:11-15).  Even though both laughed silently in their heart, God heard, and didn’t see any humor in the situation.

Justification of sins does not involve jesting, foolish talking is not expressing faith, and holiness does not include humor.  It all does involve humble obedience (Philippians 2:8), and mutual abidance (John 15:1-6). One cannot continue the “just kidding” comments of jesting, the wise cracking comedy of the old man, and learn Christ as commanded (Ephesians 4:20-32).

 

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